Is being completely absorbed in a game, a hobby or cooking the same thing as meditation?

Losing yourself in a game, painting or chopping vegetables can feel absorbing. That experience has something in common with meditation—but it is not the same thing.

Published 24 October 2026 · Last evidence review 24 October 2026 · OASYS Editorial

You put something in the oven. You turn back to the chopping board. You add the sauce, taste it, add a little more, and then wonder why the timer is already going off.

Or perhaps you're painting a tiny detail on a model. Or playing a game, working out a tricky move, and thinking about absolutely nothing else for a while.

Someone calls your name. You don't hear them the first time.

Later you say, “I completely lost myself in that.”

It can be a lovely feeling. And because it involves concentration and sometimes a surprising sense of calm, people may call it meditation.

There's a connection, but being absorbed in something isn't automatically the same as meditating. The interesting part is what each experience asks your attention to do.

The disappearing clock

Psychologists use the word flow to describe a kind of deep involvement in an activity. You might feel interested, challenged, able to keep going and less preoccupied with what everyone thinks of you.

The activity doesn't have to be extraordinary. A person can become absorbed in a crossword, a song, a recipe, a drawing or a game.

Often there's something for you to respond to: a puzzle that is hard enough to be interesting, a brushstroke that needs adjusting, a meal that changes as it cooks.

Researchers have studied flow across many settings. A review of 236 sources found recurring themes such as absorption, motivation and a sense of control, but also found that scientists use lots of different definitions and measures.

So “I lost track of time” is a good everyday clue, not a scientific diagnosis of a particular brain state.

Meditation may ask for almost the opposite

Now imagine noticing that your mind has drifted away from what you're doing.

In some mindfulness practices, noticing that drift is part of the point. You aren't necessarily trying to disappear into a task. You may be paying attention to what you can hear, feel or think, and recognising when attention moves.

A wandering thought can be noticed without having to chase it. A moment of boredom doesn't mean you've failed.

Compare that with the game. During a gripping moment, you may barely notice yourself noticing anything. You're occupied with the next move.

One experience can involve being caught up in an activity. Another can involve being aware of what is happening, even when it's ordinary or uncomfortable.

Researchers have found evidence of a tension between mindfulness and the absorbing side of flow in some situations. But that isn't the end of the story: other research investigates whether mindfulness training can help people experience flow more readily. Results depend on what researchers call mindfulness and which aspect of flow they measure.

In other words, these are related ideas, not two words for one identical feeling.

Enjoyment doesn't need a new label

This is where I think the everyday example is most useful.

Maybe cooking is one of the rare times you're not checking messages. Maybe your favourite game gives you a satisfying problem to solve. Maybe knitting means your hands are busy and your thoughts become less crowded.

Those are different pleasures. None needs to be renamed a meditation session to count as something worthwhile.

And not every absorbing activity feels good. A game can become frustrating. A demanding task may leave you tired. Someone else might enjoy the same activity for ten minutes and then want to stop.

A pleasant experience is not a guaranteed treatment. And a hobby doesn't owe you a measurable wellbeing outcome.

The small difference worth remembering

If you're curious next time you're doing something you enjoy, you could notice whether you're deeply caught up in what happens next, or simply noticing what is happening around you.

No score. No timer. No obligation to become more mindful, more creative or more productive.

There are many ways attention can feel good to us.

Sometimes we enjoy being fully involved in a task. Sometimes we enjoy noticing the world without needing to do anything about it.

And sometimes the best part of cooking is simply that dinner tastes good.

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